Lessons from Benji and Musings on Fall

“Benji, you’re amazing.”

“Why do you say that, Sue?”

“Because, you haven’t let your accident define you.”

“What accident?” he asked.

“You know. The one that … um.. damaged your leg. Did you forget something’s missing?”

“I guess I did! Look at me run and jump!”

“Wow, still so fast, Benji! Like I said, you’re amazing!”

“Nah, nothing special. I just moved on, that’s all, like the season. Did you notice fall is in the air? The dry grass smells like hay.”

“And the apples are turning pink. Have you tried one yet?”

“I did, Benji. It was delicious. Tomatoes will follow soon.”

“The cantaloupe has a way to go. We’ll be lucky if they ripen in time.”

“Each on its own schedule, Sue. There’s already color in the maple out front and whirligigs have formed. I love to watch them twirl to the ground, don’t you?”

“Indeed, I do, Benji. Thanks for being such an inspiration.”

“It’s nothing, Sue. Better to enjoy what you have than focus on what you lost.”

~ Susanne and Benji

25 Comments on “Lessons from Benji and Musings on Fall

  1. Aw, this is so sweet, Susanne! Benji has adapted very well to his/her loss of the limb, wonderful!

  2. That’s why we need kitties (and other kinds of pets) in our lives…to make us slow down and think.

    • Yes. Benji has been quite an inspiration to me these past few months, in how well he adapted to his tri-pawed status.

  3. Benji is very smart! If only people would recognize the difference between a victim and a survivor. That being that victims dwell on the past and try to rewrite history and survivors walk away from the past and focus on making the now and future the best possible!!

  4. Does your cat call you by your first name? Mind you, mine would be far less polite. I dread to think what mine calls me.

  5. Benji is indeed inspiring, a lesson to us all in getting on with life regardless of what apparent obstacles it throws at you. I say ‘apparent’ obstacles because clearly Benji doesn’t see his missing leg as any sort of obstacle 🙂

    • Thanks, John. I appreciate your comment! It’s been amazing to see Benji still so active and happy, as if nothing is different! 😻